Do Not Chase Women: 7 Reason Why You Should Not

Maxwell Jordan
7 min readFeb 16, 2021

I know the idea of saying “ do not chase women,” for some may seem like that is not the manly thing to do. We are taught, much by society, that men make the moves; we take action, we make the initiative.

This may come down to evolution and that men were the warriors, the seekers, the ones to initiate when they want something.

We are the aggressors, they are passive.

However, in today’s society, especially in the west, the idea of chasing women doesn’t hold well, especially with all the equality push that we hear from much of society.

The debunked argument that women earn less than men doing the same job and working the same hours is a bold-face life that is constantly spewed in mainstream media ad naseum.

And if this were true, “then you’d think most business would just hire women, so that they could cut down on cost.” — Thomas Sowell

This is just a bold-faced lie, but I digress.

In a society (western society) where men and women are equal, the idea of chasing after anyone’s love is a bit ludicrous and makes no sense.

Yes, some women are reserved and need a bit of show that a guy is interested — and there are some of us guys out there who know what we want.

However, I believe that it should be a mutual meeting of two people who WANT to be with one another when it comes to love.

It should not be a game of “Catch me if you can.”

In this article, I want to express why we do not chase women and what we can do to find the right women for us.

This game of catch me if you can is what kids do, and this, especially in today’s social and political climate, should not even be a thing.

If we are all equal, as we are and should be, the idea of chasing after love because we are the man makes no sense.

She may very well be a prize, but so are we, and there is no shame in us admitting we are just as much of a catch as she is.

Do Not Chase Women: 7 Reason Why You Should Not

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Maxwell Jordan

I refuse to allow the perceivably insuperable legions of negative people in life to tear me down. I'll not be defeated by life, life will be defeated by me.