“I Don’t Need You!” This Phrase Will Destroy A Narcissist

Maxwell Jordan
3 min readMay 17, 2021
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Many people are greatly mistaken about the narcissist in their life. They believe that narcissists don't need others, that they are full of confidence, self-love, and are highly self-esteemed.

But the truth of the matter is that narcissists, most of them, are the complete opposite.

These people have an irrational need to be affirmed and validated ALL OF THE TIME.

They need people like an addict needs his next fix. These people are addicted to people and will do anything and everything to get attention from people.

This is one reason why they go batsh*t insane when we give them the silent treatment or go NO CONTACT.

They can’t process the “No Contact” and Ghosting.

When you move on from a narcissist or tell them you do not need them in your life, you have no idea how much you are KILLING THE INSIDE.

You are much more powerful than you know.

The act of not needing these people in our lives sends them into a maelstrom of insanity.

It is a huge blow to their ego, and for many of them, they never learn how to cope effectively.

Hence is why so many of them go on smear campaigns, gossiping about you around town, and even try…



Maxwell Jordan

I refuse to allow the perceivably insuperable legions of negative people in life to tear me down. I'll not be defeated by life, life will be defeated by me.